The Street Caroler

http://kvanders.files.wordpress.com/2009/03/traffic_jam.jpgReposted from my old Friendster blog, dated December 23, 2007.

“Oh no, not again,” my brother sighed for the nth time as he stepped on the brakes of the car. We were driving along the convergence of Abad Santos and Rizal Avenue in Caloocan City and before we knew it, we just got into the bottleneck of heavy traffic. It was late in the afternoon on the 23rd of December and like us, people were headed to the nearest bargain centers to do some last minute shopping for giveaways. Outside, the cacophony that so defined the streets of Metro Manila blended together in wild chorus.

“Typical,” I mumbled as I reached forward to adjust the volume of the stereo playing another hit by Linkin Park. I was the self-appointed DJ and operator, or more appropriately, volume adjuster, for the trip.

We sat there unmoved for a few minutes impatiently waiting for the car ahead of us to move. As usual, out of sheer habit, we tried to while away time by telling funny stories we already knew, most of them recounted more than a hundred times already. It didn’t matter though, we still thought they were funny anyway and from time to time, peals of laughter would burst out from inside the car.

“Yeah, remember the time when Bob went to…” my other brother from the back blabbered away as we all listened as if we were hearing the story for the first time. We were eagerly anticipating the punch-line when we were interrupted by a soft knock on the window near the driver’s seat. Outside, a scrawny little boy with an improvised tambourine in his hands started singing a popular Christmas carol.

“Jingle bells, jingle bells
Jingle all the way
Oh what fun, tadat tat tat
Tadat tat tat tat
Oh jingle bells, jingle bells
Jingle all the way…”

I could not help but burst into laughter as I sat there like a captured audience to his own version of the famous Jingle Bells song. Not that I was mocking his funny lyrics but that I found his improvisation amusing as he not only sang but added some dance moves to his repertoire.

He concluded his performance with a slurred version of “…we wish you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year” and knocked on the window again for his Christmas gift. My brother who was at the left side of the car was so amused that he requested for an encore.

“Kuya, pamasko nalang po, pagod na ako eh…” (“But sir,” he pleaded, “I’m too tired to sing. Can you just give me something so I could go? Please?”) He was serious.

As the car moved a little forward and the atmosphere inside it shifted to another round of familiar stories, the image of the child doing an improvised solo performance in the middle of a congested road was glued in my head. The traffic light far ahead us went green but we barely moved. The stories got repeated yet again but in my mind, a flurry of mixed thoughts raged on.

“Yes, that was tiresome…” I thought to myself as I fought off the lump in my throat. I tried to look away for some diversion and after a while, I attempted to get into the conversation again. I succeeded, at least at the moment.

Does Your Church Embarrass You?

http://apmethodist.org/images/blog.gifWhy don’t you invite people to church?

Most pastors would say this is because people are not very passionate about their relationship with God. I disagree. Why? Read on and see if you can agree with me.

Few years ago, I got these messages from college friends:

Jojo, don’t get me wrong but I’m just curious, why
didn’t you invite me to church when we were in
college? (text message from a college classmate)

…you only asked me if I was okay.
We never really talked about spiritual things.
I would have loved to talk about those kind of stuff…
(translated Friendster testimonial, Nov. 9, 2005)

Of course I was surprised at these messages but when I really thought about it, I came up with five LAME reasons why I didn’t invite them.

1. Our praise and worship was more of a cacophony than music. We had terrible sound system and very loud drums. What will my friends think?

2. My pastor might preach about money and the problems of the congregation. And he usually preaches at least an hour!

3. We didn’t have a nice church building. My friends might think I’m not cool because I go to that kind of church.

4. Someone in the congregation might suddenly cry and speak in tongues (we are Pentecostals). That might freak my friends out.

You see, I think I’m good at blaming other people why I failed to invite friends to church. I guess it’s just harder to admit I was the culprit. So how about you, what are your LAME excuses for not inviting people to church?

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Disclaimer: This was almost a decade ago. No harm intended to my former pastor.

Disclosure: I ended up pastoring that church for four wonderful years. I’ve had my fair share of terrible music and long, embarrassing sermons too.

Note: This entry is part of the Blog Carnival organized by Peter Pollock and Bridget Chumbley. To read more posts on the subject on CHURCH, click here.

Heaven Needs a New PR

http://www.filmschoolrejects.com/images/angels-and-demons-header.jpgWhen Jesus was born, the first people to know were not the top officials of the established Jewish religion but the shepherds who were out in the cold night taking care of their sheep. You could tell they were not influential people in their communities. If they were, they would have been  in their home towns for the Roman census. They were the ordinary workforce of Israel, people you may never miss if they disappear for months.

Why God chose to reveal the birth of Christ first to them is simply beyond me. But somehow I’m glad that God did it because it gives us hope. It gives hope to people who feel insignificant and ordinary, people whose great character are drowned in the noise of the daily grind.

Have you ever struggled with feelings of insignificance? Like everyone else is important and you’re not? Take comfort in the fact that you are never forgotten, and no matter how you feel about yourself, you are significant to God. He even got your name  tattooed in his hands. Go figure what that means!

Excuse Me Lord But I’m Quite Busy Today

http://elijahstephen.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/T-Shirt-Not-Now-Im-Busy-705334.jpgThe birth of Jesus Christ is one of the most prophesied event in the Bible. Scholars say there are at least 322 detailed prophecies about it in the Old Testament. That’s quite a lot! Famous people’s birthdays are remembered because they are famous. If they lived otherwise, nobody wouldn’t even notice they passed this earth.

Jesus was different. He was famous thousands of years before He was born. The prophets saw His arrival, even Balaam, the evil sorcerer, saw His coming. Middle Eastern Magi knew He was born by just watching at the stars. The world, Jewish and pagan alike, anticipated his coming. Subconsciously, all of creation waited for that exact moment of his birth, including the angels of heaven.

A little town somewhere in the far corner of Israel was appointed to be the first host of this visitor from heaven. Bethlehem, the city of David, will be redeemed from insignificance. The Messiah has come to its doorsteps, unfortunately, their houses are all filled. They were busy when the prophecy rolled in front of them.

But you, Bethlehem Ephrathah,
though you are small among the clans of Judah,
out of you will come for me
one who will be ruler over Israel,
whose origins are from of old,
from ancient times.

Isn’t it sad when a centuries’ old prophecy happens right at your door and you were too busy to recognize it? I wonder how the people who turned away Joseph and Mary felt when they realized they were sort of inhospitable to the deliverer they claimed to anticipate.

Just a Christmas thought for everyone…

Oh No, He’s Talking About Money Again!

http://www.newsobserver.com/content/media/2008/6/13/money.jpgTo tithe or not to tithe?

The subject of giving and tithing is a controversial topic among Christian circles. When I searched Google about Jesus’ teachings on money, a few websites came up boldly declaring the unscriptural basis of tithing that it almost sounded like its a bondage that you need to get free from.

I don’t want to start a riot here by asking this difficult question. I’m writing this because last Sunday, we happened to talk about giving and tithing in our small group and our discussion was very constructive. I know some people can have very strong feelings about the pros and cons of tithing and I don’t feel the need to present both sides here. This is not a treatise on ecclesiastical economics so I think I’ll just leave it for the experts to weigh both sides. In this devotional blog, I only intend to share why I personally think giving is good for us.

I give to God because I don’t understand His economic system. If you happened to read my life story, you will have known that I came from the poorest of families in rural Philippines. When I was a kid, we survived on less than five dollars a week. We were twelve in the family. American economics would tell us we were supposed to have died of hunger. Typical third world thing. But we knew Christ, and that made all the difference. We survived to tell the tale and I could only testify that it was God who helped us through those hard times.

I don’t need theological debates about whether or not to give my tithe. I came from nothing but Christ gave me everything. I have nothing to boast apart from what Jesus did in my life. For me, that’s reason enough to be grateful. Let the theologians and skeptics have their field day, as for me, I’m worshiping God with the money He gave me.

OMG, my Pastor is Preaching About Money Today!

http://uk2.net/blog/wp-content/uploads/mooooney.jpgHow do you feel when the pastor talks about money in his sermon?

Most of us feel uneasy when this topic comes up in a Sunday morning sermon. We think of the new attendees, the guests, the people we’ve worked so hard to invite to church. “What will they think of our church now?”

Others think that church money is running low and the pastor felt the need to do a little grovelling from the pulpit. As if people give more just because the preacher sounded desperate.

Others think this is a topic for “mature Christians” only. New converts should never be subjected to such “deep theological doctrines” because they’re just baby Christians and they might misunderstand.

I’ve only heard of very few people who were actually glad to hear sermons about money.

I know everyone can pretty much figure out what this says about us Christians in general. When we sit in church on Sundays, we pick parts of the sermons that we feel are for us. We love to hear about God blessing us, loving us unconditionally, being there for us in times of need, being a healer, provider and friend.

But when sermons are about giving, finishing the kid’s church, supporting a child in Africa and caring for the sick, we quickly dodge the topic and wish the pastor would do more research and preach more “life changing” topics than controversial ones.

Is it because deep within us, we really don’t want to give if we can help it?